Tuesday, May 12, 2015
Once the rallying cry of the pro-choice movement, the slogan “Every child a wanted child” still makes an appearance from time to time. I am opposed to this phrase as an arbitrary & subjective label applied to a child based on the adult’s feelings (& consequently behavior) toward the child, rather than representing the child’s intrinsic value itself. By applying arbitrary labels & subjective value to a child, we perpetuate a culture in which humans, specifically children are valued & treated in the manner of which they are labeled, in which the case of labeling children “unwanted” we perpetuate the poor treatment of these children based on their status in the adult’s eyes (A good example of this is Dave Peltzer’s biography “A Child Called It”*) Arbitrary values can also be used to demean humans to the status of commodities, wherein people are seen as no more than property to be sold, used, & disposed of, for example such as in the crimes of human trafficking and slavery. Also in past history, we once assigned arbitrary values to humans, in order to justify the poor treatment of certain populations. See what I’m getting at? Every person is born with intrinsic value, dignity, & worth , which can't be measured or assigned based on others subjective view, for if we do, this is a slippery slope we begin to go down.
*As demonstrated in Mr. Peltzer's situation, resulting from an intended pregnancy isn’t any guarantee against a child becoming the victim of abuse. Once again, it has nothing to do with the child itself, but rather the adults chosen attitudes & behaviors towards the child. It is the adults who need to change their attitudes & behaviors towards children.
Monday, October 20, 2014
The first one looks like this:
The second one begins with:
- Person who drove you crazy:
- Person who signed you in:
- Your doctor:
- Person in the corner drooling on themselves:
- Your roommate:
- Person who helps break you out:
"You and I end up in an Insane Asylum together. Using a sentence what would you say to me?"
With Facebook friends completing the sentence. An acquaintance posted this status today and received the following replies, which can be sorted into categories which unfortunately reflect the ignorance & stigma still in existence today towards mental health conditions:
Making Fun of Individuals with Serious Mental Health Disorder:
Nonsensical statements referring to & poking fun of "disorganized thinking" and "delusional thoughts" both symptoms associated with schizophrenia, a serious mental health disorder.
"Peanut Butter cockroach"
"Listen to the aardvarks... their secret lies in the carrot soup."
"I'm a pretty princess lol"
Making Light Of Mental Health Disorders and the Seriousness of Need for Hospitalization:
Treating Hospitalization as If It's a Vacation:
"I knew we would end up here but I'm glad we are together"
"did you bring the music"
"I knew we'd eventually end up here; good thing this isn't my first rodeo!!!"
"Can I have your red pill?
"Told you it was a short drive to crazy!"
"lets find sexy men to play house lol"
"Did u bring your camera"
"It was bound to happen, it's in our genes"
"So [name redacted] pranks finally made u crazy enough and you snapped huh?"
"Well, isn't this some CRAZY sh*t?"
"I know you should be here, but why am I here!"
"Do you like strawberry or grape jelly?"
"To hell with that diet...lets eat!"
"This is a vacation"
Making Fun Of Individuals with Mental Disability
"dont lick that window anymore?"
This derived from the slang "window licker" which originates from focusing on and stereotyping one particular behavior of some individuals with intellectual/mental disability and is considered as offensive as calling someone "retarded"
References to Escape:
"Let's get out of here"
"How are we escaping?"
I think this refers back to a sordid time in early mental health treatment history before psychiatric medicines and talk therapy were developed. At that time, doctors just didn't know how to treat serious mental disorders such as psychosis, schizophrenia, depression, and anxiety disorders as well as developmental disabilities such as autism and therefore attempted a variety of treatments and used restraints which would be considered cruel and inhumane by modern standards (sources 1 and 2). This along with mixed with Hollywood movie portrayals such as those in One Flew Over the Coocoo's Nest are what forms this colloquialism and negative attitude. Mental health treatment and care has improved dramatically (in countries such as the U.S. and Canada) and while mental health facilities are no fun place to be, many patients seek care voluntarily for the sake of their health. With that said, hospitalization can be mandated by a court in the case of imminent danger to ones self (actively suicidal) or others (homicidal) and the issue of patients prematurely leaving both voluntary and involuntary treatment by elopement is becoming an issue due to the influence of the anti-psychiatry movement in the U.S. and abroad (source)
Crime & Mischief:
"I told you badddddddd idea ."
"I should have known not to listen listen to you!!"
"Look what you got us into now"
Another misconception. Nope, sorry hijinks aren't going to get you an involuntary stay in a mental health facility. A decree of not guilty due to mental incompetence/mental defect is used by the courts during a trial when a perpetrator's untreated serious mental health disorder leads them to commit a serious felony crime.
Talk About Straightjackets:
The negative connotations of the straitjacket as an instrument of torture come from the earlier Victorian era of medicine. Physical restraint was then extensively used both as treatment for mental illness and as a means of pacifying patients in understaffed asylums. Wearing an institutional straitjacket for long periods of time can be quite painful. Blood tends to pool in the elbows, where swelling may then occur. The hands may become numb from lack of proper circulation, and due to bone and muscle stiffness the upper arms and shoulders may experience excruciating pain." (source) Not so funny anymore, is it?
"This new coat is so comfy. Lol"
Talk About Psychiatric Medications:
'we'd probably be drugged so probably something like this "fyhblohdsfhnnl" '
And my finale thought: Humor about people with mental illness in need of treatment in a state/private mental institution is offensive & perpetuates stigma : /
Saturday, October 18, 2014
I thoroughly agree with the premise of this article & the inherently flawed logic in the pro-choice "forced gestation" argument. In addition, to argue that women are inherently unequal due to our biology & unable to fully participate in society unless we deny our femininity & alter our biology (by chemically sterilizing ourselves or aborting our off-spring) in order to gain equality is to treat women as inherently second class citizens & seems to fly in the face of what our feminist fore mothers believed. Rather women should be truly valued for our traits as individuals with intrinsic value, not who we have to become to be valued or accepted as equal (& this also could be said of sexual orientation, skin color, appearance, economic status, cultural background, or religious beliefs).
Friday, March 21, 2014
Also, most people with Down syndrome have only mild to moderate mental retardation. More important than IQ scores is the fact that all individuals with Down syndrome are capable of learning. Most children with Down syndrome in the United States are “mainstreamed” into regular schools. They attend regular classes for some subjects and attend special classes for other subjects and continue to earn a certificate of completion or graduate from high school. A large percentage of adults with Down syndrome live semi-independently in supported living homes and assisted living facilities. Adults with Down syndrome often hold jobs and have romantic relationships. Some high school graduates with Down syndrome participate in post-secondary education. Many adults with Down syndrome are capable of working in the community, but some require a more structured environment, such as a supervised workshop.
It's important to remember that individuals with Down Syndrome are people too. They enjoy various hobbies and activities and have individual likes and dislikes like you and I. Also, people with Down syndrome experience a full range of emotions such as sadness, anger and happiness & they respond to positive expressions of friendship and they are hurt and upset by inconsiderate behavior, just like everyone else.
Disability rights organizations, care providers, and individuals and their families are seeking to educate the public and bring about awareness about Down Syndrome so that better treatments can be found, to lend to more education and understanding of the condition, and bring about awareness.
For more information on Down Syndrome and to listen to families and individuals with Down Syndrome share their insight and experiences, please visit:
Room for More: World Down Syndrome Day
Offers scientific research, information, education, and suuport to parents and families of children with Down Syndrome as well as awareness and education for the medical professionals and the general public. Written by parents of a child with Down Syndrome.
National Down Syndrome Society Offers advocacy, outreach, education, and support and resources for families, parents, and medical professionals. Helpline: 1-800-221-4602
Support Organization for Families of Trisomy, a nonprofit volunteer organization offering support for parents who have had or are expecting a child with a chromosome disorder and education to families and professionals interested in the care of these children.
Recommended Down Syndrome Sites on the Internet
Compiled by Len Leshin, M.D.
Hidden Treasures: The Trisomy 21 Journey
Parents from all around the world share their stories.
Dreams features children and adults who have Down syndrome talking about their dreams and what they're proud of in their lives. This fun and inspirational video made by Scott and Julia Elliott celebrates the work of the National Down Syndrome Society and the larger Down syndrome community.
Monday, March 10, 2014
Today, March 10th is National Abortion Provider Appreciation Day. Here are my thoughts in a letter to abortion providers (doctors, nurses, & clinic staff).
Dear abortion providers,
Although you ment well & were trying to help, there are many women who've been hurt by their abortion(s) in addition to those who've benefited.
As you may know, an abortion is often a short-term fix to long-term problem(s) such as poverty, homelessness, & limited education. Please re-consider your work & let's work together to find other ways to better address these issues & work together to strengthen & empower women.
A pro-life feminist
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Saturday, February 15, 2014
Earlier this year, I felt as if I was making strides in my battle with depression, that is until I experienced a setback in August of this past year. I didn't felt ready to share this until now...here is my story.
I had been doing well that past summer, taking my medicine as prescribed, talking walks weekly with my home health client, and even taking the city bus on errands & going to & from work to get exercise & save money (& car fuel). However I noticed my depressive symptoms slowly increasing starting in late July, when I no longer felt interested in taking my client for walks & I was becoming more irritable & withdrawn. Looking back I think a couple of major factors for me included hormone changes associated with my monthlies, & I hate to say this, but participating in my sister's wedding triggered some tough emotions for me, feelings of longing for a healthy relationship with my ex & what-ifs. And then the following weekend, I helped set up for & attended my cousin's wedding in Ohio, ouch an emotionally triggering double whammy for me. Don't get me wrong, I felt happy for them & still do, but it was hard emotionally for me.
Friday, July 26, 2013
My dad and I recently completed a Father-Daughter project we had been working on in the evenings. He taught me basic carpentry skills while we turned an ordinary cat scratching post into a cat tree house (recycling extra scrap carpet, wood, & rope we had lying around). It was a ten hour project and every bit worth it, they love it!
Just to let my readers know, I'll be doing little blogging/tweeting this week, as I'm working 30 plus hours, preparing for my younger sister's upcoming wedding (which I'm a bridesmaid in), and visiting with family from out of state and country...I'm staying busy!